Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Dating vent session.
Ok. So problem. Guys don't ask me on dates. I've been on one blind date this semester and thats it. As great as they are...they're not. To me its like 'Hey! No ones asking you on a date so Im gonna have my friend take you on one.' I don't find blind dates flattering because it's not like they asked me on a date because they think Im cute or they like my personality...they don't know anything about me! So thats blind dates. Now theres the ward date box. Can you say desperate?! Someone put my name in the date box which to me is kinda degrading. Sure, it might go really well, but still. Its like ok... I cant get dates on my own so people decide that it's their responsibility to find people to like me. Awesome. Why cant the guys that Im actually interested in take a hint? Im sure they do sometimes, but they don't do anything about it! This needs to change. Saaaave me.
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Ha! Story of my life. I think this is what's called the "sophomore slump." My roommate asked a guy friend of ours why guys don't ask younger girls on dates, and he said with Freshmen there's that whole Freshman girls are afraid of RMs stigma. Sophomore girls just want to have fun, and then when you get into Junior and Senior year the girls are finally interested in seriously dating. So pretty much if you don't want to get married right now they're not interested in dating you and if you do want to get married right now they're still just assuming you are part of the Sophomore girl stereotype. Personally I feel like I'm stuck smack in the middle- while I'm not hope-hope-hoping that prince charming will come along and sweep me off my feet at any moment, I am more than open to seriously dating and even the "m" word, because I've decided the timeline is up to Heavenly Father, not me. I'd at least like to feel like I'm progressing in that area, but... Let's just say that I went on a date last weekend that was the first one I'd been on since July. So I feel like I'm inching along in the dating world.
ReplyDeleteSo that was a really long-winded way of saying that I feel your pain. Geez, I guess I just have a lot to say today! :P